A long time ago, when love went terribly wrong in my life I had to work a lot to re-develop my relationship with it. The process was a steep learning curve... Amongst the most important things I learnt were:
1) Discover and understand your reasons for wanting someone in your life, and give to yourself what you want from them. Don't leave it to someone else to love and cherish you and make you feel lovable. If you love and cherish yourself FIRST, and believe that you are lovable they will too, because they will see you as worthy of their love, and they will find you lovable, and deserving of care and attention.
2) As for marriage, or a long-term serious relationship, it is said, "Marry yourself first, and then someone else."
Because what you do not have you can neither attract its like, nor can you have any to give to someone else. You can only give something that you already have. So, if you're looking for a new love, or looking to enhance an existing relationship tighten your bond with yourself first, and plan that date with yourself. My plan is to take myself, and 'all my parts' :-), for a Reiki session -- and have ourselves a good, loving conversation during the session :-).
What are your plans?
Kiki ;-)
P.S. My request to those who 'borrow' from this blog is to please give adequate credit to the source of the borrowed information - whether me, or books and people I quote from. Thank you.
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