If money were no object...

... what would you like to have in your life? This is a question I often ask my clients. It is a question that almost always follows the first one which is: 'What would you like to have in your life?' -- to which the invariable answer is a desire for money, very often huge, humungous amounts of it. Oh, I have nothing against money -- money is great to have, because having it provides us with a tangible resource to exchange for whatever it is we need. However, obsessing only about a dollar amount is like putting the cart before the horse, instead of the other way around. What most people don't know or realize is that focusing upon what you would DO with that money shortens its manifestation in your life. Here's what we think:

Step 1: Have money

Step 2: Buy what we need/want

Step 3: Feel happy

And I lknow most of you would be very surprised if I told you that the way this actually happens is the inverse. How it actually happens is:

Step 1: FEEL happy. Close your eyes and really SEE yourself happy. This might happen quickly or may take a while if you are stuck in a victim mode, a fear mode, pre-occupied with unhappy thoughts that are actually not nurturing you or nourishing your heart.

Step 2: SEE yourself as you would be if your desire were already manifested. How would you FEEL then? How joyful would you be? This is also a good stage for a confirmation by you within, if this is indeed what you need or want. If its hard to connect with a sense of joy, skip this desire andallow another one to emerge in your mind. Then follow the same procedure.

Step 3: The desire will manifest. Keep an open mind. Don't be attached to the exact form or shape; keep focusing on feeling joy in your heart.

Why can I say this with so much certainty? It's because this is what I do, and it works for me.

Is it really as simple as that? Yes - if you take some time each day on your personal growth and try to become more peaceful within, less bitter, deal with your fears. Also, it will take much longer if done by yourself, and or with the help of self-help books. But if you work with a professional traied to help and guide you, a cakewalk :-)!

Kiki ;-)
P.S. My request to those who 'borrow' from this blog is to please give adequate credit to the source of the borrowed information - whether me, or books and people I quote from. Thank you.